Personal Development

Jika hati sakit

Berkata Malik bin Dinar, “Sesungguhnya jika badan sakit, maka makan, minum, tidur dan rehat tidak akan selesa baginya. Begitu juga dengan HATI. Apabila ia cenderung kepada DUNIA (sakit cinta dunia), maka nasihat-nasihat tidak lagi berguna baginya.” (Kitab Shifatush Shafwah)

NVC-style Conflict Resolution

Some further details on NVC NVC-style conflict resolution differs from other methods of resolving disputes. Traditionally, conflict mediators focus on issues while offering an outside perspective to help the involved parties reach an agreement about those issues. With NVC, the… Read More ›

NVC Interactions

Nonviolence Communication (NVC) A language of life Applying these principles of self-expression as we listen to others means we would be able to “receiving emphatically.” Listening with our “whole being.” Give up our preconceptions about the people we’re hearing. As… Read More ›

Gift of Imperfection

Let’s cultivate each of these traits: “Authenticity” by “letting go of what others think”;  “Self-compassion” by rejecting “perfectionism”; A “resilient spirit” by relinquishing feeling numbed and helpless; “Gratitude and joy” by giving up “scarcity and fear of the dark”; “Intuition”… Read More ›

Feedback: A reminder

“However unpleasant the feedback pill might be, think how much worse the experience would be if any of your mistakes were shared with a wider audience.”

The Most Worthy Are Those Who Salute Most

عَنْ عَبْدِ اللَّهِ بن مَسْعُودٍ، قَالَ: قَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ:إِنَّ أَوْلَى النَّاسِ بِي يَوْمَ الْقِيَامَةِ أَكْثَرُ النَّاسِ عَلَيَّ صَلاةً. From ‘Abdullah Bin Masoud who said: The Messenger (pbuh) said: ‘Indeed, those who are nearest to me on… Read More ›

Skills for Being Innovative

The skill for being innovative is basically to act with creativity in identifying and pursuing more four-way wins. To do so, you would need to: Focus on results Resolve conflicts among different aspects / domains of your life Challenge the… Read More ›

Skills for being whole

Skill of being whole is about acting with integrity. What I mean by that is respecting the fact that all the roles you play make up one whole person and encouraging others to view you the same way. To do… Read More ›